01.04 · Love & Relationships
Choose Between Two Partners
“I have feelings for two people. What do I do?”
The 9-card layout
1. Where you are emotionally
2. The pull toward the first person
3. {B} intentions
4. What that could become
5. The pull toward the second person
6. {B} intentions
7. What that could become
8. What you actually need
9. What to do with that
Hold your question in mind, then shuffle.
Turning the deck is why cards come out reversed. A reversed card is not a bad card - it is the same card at a lower ebb, blocked, or on its way out.
You at the top, one person down each side, and your own needs and guidance down the middle. It compares two connections on the same three measures instead of asking which person is better.
What each position asks
These meanings belong to this spread. A card is read for the place it lands in, so the same card says something different in position 1 than it does in position 9.
- 1Where you are emotionally
- 2The pull toward the first person
- 3{B} intentions
- 4What that could become
- 5The pull toward the second person
- 6{B} intentions
- 7What that could become
- 8What you actually need
- 9What to do with that