01.03 · Love & Relationships
Why Are We Dating & Where Is It Going?
“What is this, and where is it heading?”
The 9-card layout
1. {A} reason for being here
2. {B} reason for being here
3. {A} feelings
4. {B} feelings
5. What connects {ab}
6. What gets in the way
7. The next few weeks
8. The longer arc
9. Where it most likely goes
This spread reads two people. Names are optional - they only change how the positions are labelled, and they stay in this browser tab.
Hold your question in mind, then shuffle.
Turning the deck is why cards come out reversed. A reversed card is not a bad card - it is the same card at a lower ebb, blocked, or on its way out.
Nine cards for a connection that has started but has not been defined. It reads each person’s motives and feelings separately, then what holds the two together and what is in the way.
What each position asks
These meanings belong to this spread. A card is read for the place it lands in, so the same card says something different in position 1 than it does in position 9.
- 1{A} reason for being here
- 2{B} reason for being here
- 3{A} feelings
- 4{B} feelings
- 5What connects {ab}
- 6What gets in the way
- 7The next few weeks
- 8The longer arc
- 9Where it most likely goes