01.11 · Love & Relationships
Does This Person Remember Me?
“Am I still on their mind?”
The 7-card layout
1. What remains of {a} with {b}
2. What brings {a} to mind
3. What comes with the memory
4. {B} fondest memory of it
5. {B} sense of what is missing
6. What {bs} would rather not remember
7. Whether any of it moves {b} to act
This spread reads two people. Names are optional - they only change how the positions are labelled, and they stay in this browser tab.
Hold your question in mind, then shuffle.
Turning the deck is why cards come out reversed. A reversed card is not a bad card - it is the same card at a lower ebb, blocked, or on its way out.
Seven cards about someone else’s memory of you. It reads as a map of what remains, not as evidence about another person’s private thoughts - and it is worth holding lightly for exactly that reason.
What each position asks
These meanings belong to this spread. A card is read for the place it lands in, so the same card says something different in position 1 than it does in position 7.
- 1What remains of {a} with {b}
- 2What brings {a} to mind
- 3What comes with the memory
- 4{B} fondest memory of it
- 5{B} sense of what is missing
- 6What {bs} would rather not remember
- 7Whether any of it moves {b} to act