01.05 · Love & Relationships
Relationship Dynamics
“What is really going on between us?”
The 7-card layout
1. {A} feelings
2. {B} feelings
3. {A} unmet needs
4. {B} unmet needs
5. The state of the relationship
6. The tension under it
7. Where it is heading
This spread reads two people. Names are optional - they only change how the positions are labelled, and they stay in this browser tab.
Hold your question in mind, then shuffle.
Turning the deck is why cards come out reversed. A reversed card is not a bad card - it is the same card at a lower ebb, blocked, or on its way out.
Seven cards for a relationship that is already running: what each of you feels, what each of you is not getting, and the state, the tension and the direction down the middle.
What each position asks
These meanings belong to this spread. A card is read for the place it lands in, so the same card says something different in position 1 than it does in position 7.
- 1{A} feelings
- 2{B} feelings
- 3{A} unmet needs
- 4{B} unmet needs
- 5The state of the relationship
- 6The tension under it
- 7Where it is heading